Words Do Hurt
Ugly, fat, stupid, basket case, and psycho are some of the names that people are called just because they act differently than other people. People get judged and ridiculed so much for who they are that no one feels comfortable and in some instances safe to truly be themselves."So you’re aware that your nose isn’t as straight as you’d hoped it would be or your thighs rub together when you walk." Being Yourself
Ugly, fat, stupid, basket case, and psycho are some of the names that people are called just because they act differently than other people. People get judged and ridiculed so much for who they are that no one feels comfortable and in some instances safe to truly be themselves."So you’re aware that your nose isn’t as straight as you’d hoped it would be or your thighs rub together when you walk." Being Yourself
People try so hard just to be what they think other people want them to be. When you loose yourself it is so hard to find yourself again. They act like everything is okay, that this is how they usually act when inside they are dying because it's almost as if nobody loves them and they don't see all the people who do love them because they dwell on all the mean things that people say about them. So people change themselves just to be accepted. Sometimes it works but other times it doesn't because the people who say these things don't always care how you act they just dislike your entire being and will make your life a living hell.It like the song "Alone together" one of the verses says "My heart is like a stallion they love more when it's broken".But when it actually works I have experienced regret and it just feels wrong. Like I'm wearing someone else's skin. " Leah knew she wouldn't have done that on her own. She'd just had a big dose of peer pressure." Peer pressure is bad.
The media has a huge role in this as well. When you see someone online or in a magazine it is wired into your head that they are prettier than you , that they're better than you because they are on the cover of a magazine. You want to be like them and even though most people dismiss the idea, everyone is influenced by the media. Those little things that you want to change about yourself are usually insecurities that you have based on what society says is "pretty" or "good". Back in the 1600 hundreds being a bit hefty meant that you had money to buy the food that you eat. It was a good thing. Now if your fat than it means that you don't know how to take care of you body or that your unhealthy.
When You start to truly love yourself it makes life ten times easier even if you don't like all the things you have to learn to accept them and don't let anyone tell you to be anything that your not. :)
When You start to truly love yourself it makes life ten times easier even if you don't like all the things you have to learn to accept them and don't let anyone tell you to be anything that your not. :)